Monday, February 16, 2009

LoVe ?!!! (",)??

Love??? What is the love? Where is the love? And how is the love comes? I am a “Doctor Love” and I will describe and give a meaning about love from A to Z.

Love also known as “feels affection, adore, worship, care for someone and be fond of anything that we want to. In my last research for 10 years ago, Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres. Love will never fails.

Love is an abstract that we know it but we can’t to touch it, we also don’t know how to explain and describe about it, we merely can feel it with our bit of heart and in a deep of our hearts. Sometimes, we hear that some people will talk about love is blind. Is it true?? I also did a research about “is it love is blind?” for 1 million samples around all of states in Malaysia. From that research was shown that 95% was agree that love is blind, 3% was disagree and 2% was know nothing about love. From that result, I can conclude that majority know that love is blind, why it will happen? Statistic of married in Malaysian stated that around 45% men was marry with a women who older than him for 10 or 20 years gap. This is a fact and reality for nowadays.

Love for sex? Or sex for love? Both are totally wrong, Sex is not love! Others culture has taught us that sex and love are one in the same. This is a lie. Sex is a beautiful God-given activity that is wonderful when practiced within have a right relationship or easily known, after get married. We do it for get a children and for make our family become bigger and bigger. This is also one of the sunnah from our prophet Nabi Muhammad S.A.W. when you have a sex with your wife you will gain your family and Islam becomes bigger.

Extra information: the characteristic of my dreams girl are, the first and foremost, I want she is Muslims, if she was converted to Muslims I’ll make sure that she convert because love to Islam and Allah, not just for marry with me. Secondly, are honest, loyal and not rude with me. Thirdly, she must have a good attitude with anybody, especially towards me and strictly to both of my parents and siblings. Thirdly, I want she has a good looking and beautiful, the most important is she is supposed to nice to see. Finally, she must master in cooking and make water.

Now, with honest, I open a tender for anybody want to bit her price for marry with me, if they have these entire characteristic. The lower biding will get to marry with me, may be for 10 years after.